February 7, 2014

HOW TO SURVIVE VALENTINE'S DAY WHEN YOU'RE SINGLE

Valentine's day is only a week away, as always it comes a little unexpectedly. Some people love it, some people hate it but most of the time if you are single, you dread this day of love. It's actually just another normal day in a year and I'm really not against it, to me it's just another little celebration and I think it's nice to have as many celebrations as it's possible. This day can be just another chance to celebrate love for yourself and just to spread love around you. There's nothing wrong with being single and there is no reason to be sad on Valentine's day if you are single. In my opinion, the most important thing before you get into a relationship is to love yourself which is much harder to do than it sounds. I don't think it is possible to be happy in a relationship if you don't love yourself enough. So I think this day could be dedicated to celebrating yourself and without any worries about your relationship status. There are plenty possibilities to make this a very happy day!

Don't feel sorry for yourself.

 That is probably an essential part without which it will simply be impossible to make anything good out of this day. There is no reason to be sorry for yourself, you are perfectly fine being single and having a boyfriend doesn't always make you the happiest person alive. You can be as happy while being single! 

Plan a girls day/night out. 

You and your best friends could (and should!) plan a day out to spend some time together and enjoy. Friendship is so important and having your best girlfriends around you is such an amazing feeling. You could put some make up on, wear something nice and go somewhere cozy and just talk for hours.

Spend a cozy evening alone.

 Sometimes it's a very good idea to spend a day just by yourself. If you cook a great meal, pour some wine and spend evening watching a great movie, it's a perfect night. 

Wear something pink or red.

 This day in general is surrounded by this red aura and it's just another great chance to wear this great color. I like wearing red anyway but I always have something red on me on Valentine's day! 

Plan a pamper evening. 

You have do this by yourself but it's even better when you do that with your girls. Bring face masks, scrubs, some cute nail polishes and spend some time treating your bodies! Of course, don't forget a little bit of champagne or some great cocktails!

Buy yourself something nice.

 Valentine's day is a great day to treat those you love and it's also a great day to treat yourself. Buy yourself that statement necklace you've been wanting to get for months or these great shoes for an upcoming spring or a little getaway trip somewhere out of the city.

Buy yourself some flowers.

 It's a good (very good) feeling when someone you love brings you flowers but why couldn't that person be you? You can buy yourself some fresh flowers because it actually feels very nice. Flowers instantly make your home look nicer and it's also a sing that Spring is approaching quickly, which is always good!

Whatever you decide to do, remember that is just a day in a year which doesn't have to be important if you don't want it to be but also you can always use a possibility to have fun and celebrate a little bit. Just remember You are not alone and surround yourself with positive people. Hope You'll have fun!



13 comments :

  1. Puikus įrašas :) Aš manau, kad Valentino diena yra aplamai meilės diena ir nebūtinai ji turi būti skirta vaikinui. Juk yra žmonių,kuriuos mylime taip pat - draugės, šeima... Tai manau tikrai puiku būtų praleisti tą laiką su jais ;)
    Muilo Burbulai

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  2. Well V Day saddens me, you've realized that I'm single haha. I'm gonna put something black on to embrace my singleness and order pizza!

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    1. Don't be sad, You can be happy while being single, trust me. Hope You will have a great day! :)

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  3. Hello lovely, just came across your blog and it's awesome! :)

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  4. I'm not single, but I'm not the biggest fan of v day anyways. I think I've finally convinced the fiance to treat it just like any other day... hopefully he doest try and surprise me, because I really would just rather stay in haha.

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    1. After all it actually is just any other day so of course you should do whatever you want to! :)

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  5. love this post, I agree with you, loving yourself is the most important thing before you can love anyone else and I think that should also be a focus during Vday cause I don't think it's targeted enough when the holiday comes but these advice are awesome for singles, thanks for sharing :) <3

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  6. I love the buying flowers for yourself idea, you don't need someone else in order to treat yourself! I think it's the perfect excuse to look at the other love you have in your life and appreciate that!


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